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People-Pleasing and the Cost of Outsourced Authority

people-pleasing self-regard

Pleasing others and over-relying on an expert are the same move — trading agency for safety. The tell is whether the support builds your capacity or replaces it.

People-pleasing is usually filed under "being nice." It's neither a personality quirk nor a surplus of kindness. It's a relational strate...

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