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When What You Want Isn’t What You Choose

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Understanding core needs and core commitments

You say you want freedom. Or love. Or peace. But your choices tell a different story. You keep overcommitting. You push love away. You chase goals that don't actually matter to you. You stay in dynamics that drain you. From the outside it can look like ...

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