What actually happens when someone relates to you as if you were someone else? A new report treats you with a wariness you haven't earned. A client keeps asking you to decide things they are perfectly capable of deciding. A colleague's irritation with you is calibrated to some offense you did not co...

Understanding core needs and core commitments

You say you want freedom. Or love. Or peace. But your choices tell a different story. You keep overcommitting. You push love away. You chase goals that don't actually matter to you. You stay in dynamics that drain you. From the outside it can look like ...